of Hantaran

after the 'disastrous' kejadian on my engagement
which is OK to me
but not to SOME people (read: outsiders)


we decided to have hantaran for our wedding
just to make up to the ke'cacatan' on our engagement

i did not mention, did i?
well, for the E-day,
we ended up with 3 berbalas 5 hantaran
which 3 is from me to him
and 5 from him to me
which apparently IS abnormal in our adat
where usually the guy side should receive more
but apparently, what we had was the other way round
ok ape? no? ngeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

anyway, it was all unintentionally
ikutkan patutnye 3 balas 3
tp on that day itself, his sedare mara was so generous to sponsor more dulangs
tu yg jd camtu
which is definitely OK for my family and his, but not to...
dah malas nk cakap lagi

so for wedding ni,
we are settling with 7 berbalas 9
which of course 7 for me n 9 for him
jgn kurang and jgn lebih
dh malas nk dengar mulut2 yg akan berkata2
i boleh handle
but i taknak my parents kene dgr semua tu
so, amik jln tgh, puaskan je lah hati org tu
which adding more holes in our pocket
not theirs...duh!

the list?
ade yg dh beli
ade yg blom finalize pon lagi

here goes

For Raja (eiceh!)

1. Sirih Junjung
2. Ring
3. Wallet and Belt
4. Shoes (Kasut futsal)
5. Perfume Set
6. Shirt
7. Cake (TBC)
8. Chocolates (TBC)
9. Fruits (TBC)

For Ratu (ehem!)

1. Sirih Junjung or Tepak Sirih
2. Ring and mas kahwin
3. Gadget
4. Watch
5. Telekung and sejadah
6. ? (TBC by FMIL)
7. ? (TBC by FMIL)

eh eh
brg2 si ratu je yg byk dh settle ehhhh
hehhehe
takpe...ade mase lagiiii
will strike it off one by one eventually
InsyaAllah